Now the Seb case, one of the most, beautiful I guess.
When I started to get to know him, he told me that before he thought all I was was a wanna-be metalhead with much of an attitude problem but that at that point he thought otherwise and thought I was someone cool. He also said if he ever had a problem with me he would tell me.
Up to now, everything is wonderful.
Then slowly, through the month of april, our friendship began degrading, for some unknown and mysterious reasons. I don't have the knowledge that I did anything purposely to piss him off. But at some point, one evening we were a bunch of people at Rockaberry's. He was talking about Fred and this girl about Within Temptation and I said that I might be going with my best friend. Fred asked me why I wasn't going with them instead and I hinted slightly that Seb might not want me to come. It remained at that, and later that night he was kind of rough with me after I generalized about philosophy teachers (like what the hell, I was high, do you expect me to be logical after smoking weed). He didn't even explain what he meant, just saying, twice, "What you say is stupid, really stupid".
At that point I realized he did really have something against me, altough I didn't understand what or why. Later that week, or maybe the next, he approached me at school saying "We're need to talk together right NOW". So I'm like, well, okay, even if I don't like it when people boss me around like that. So he said "I'm not happy that you're coming to the Within Temptation live". I explained, quite surprised, that I didn't understand since I wasn't going with them. He aid the way I brought it up at Rockaberry's sounded like that, which made me quite puzzled because what I had said was I was going with Samir.
So later on that day I wrote him an email to ask for explanations , since he said if he had anything against me he would tell me. I wrote in that email a bit about not understanding why, saying I don't really mind and he's entitled to have his opinion but that I would like to know what happened, what did I do, so on so forth. I tried to be the most polite and calm I could, and I think I succeeded not so bad.
I waited and waited for an answer. When I finally saw him on MSN, I simply asked him if he intended to answer me. He said no, because this email was just childish behavior.
First off, could he be any more diminutive to me, almost calling me a child?
And then..
He tells me if he's mad at me he will exlain. Then, he's mad at me and he doesn't say anything. I write him a polite email to ask him the reasons, see if I can do something to make it better, etc. He refuses to answer.. and I'm the one who's acting like a child?
Did I miss out on something?
And I'm the one who's considered very dumb and air-headed by half the planet. Riiiiight.
When I started to get to know him, he told me that before he thought all I was was a wanna-be metalhead with much of an attitude problem but that at that point he thought otherwise and thought I was someone cool. He also said if he ever had a problem with me he would tell me.
Up to now, everything is wonderful.
Then slowly, through the month of april, our friendship began degrading, for some unknown and mysterious reasons. I don't have the knowledge that I did anything purposely to piss him off. But at some point, one evening we were a bunch of people at Rockaberry's. He was talking about Fred and this girl about Within Temptation and I said that I might be going with my best friend. Fred asked me why I wasn't going with them instead and I hinted slightly that Seb might not want me to come. It remained at that, and later that night he was kind of rough with me after I generalized about philosophy teachers (like what the hell, I was high, do you expect me to be logical after smoking weed). He didn't even explain what he meant, just saying, twice, "What you say is stupid, really stupid".
At that point I realized he did really have something against me, altough I didn't understand what or why. Later that week, or maybe the next, he approached me at school saying "We're need to talk together right NOW". So I'm like, well, okay, even if I don't like it when people boss me around like that. So he said "I'm not happy that you're coming to the Within Temptation live". I explained, quite surprised, that I didn't understand since I wasn't going with them. He aid the way I brought it up at Rockaberry's sounded like that, which made me quite puzzled because what I had said was I was going with Samir.
So later on that day I wrote him an email to ask for explanations , since he said if he had anything against me he would tell me. I wrote in that email a bit about not understanding why, saying I don't really mind and he's entitled to have his opinion but that I would like to know what happened, what did I do, so on so forth. I tried to be the most polite and calm I could, and I think I succeeded not so bad.
I waited and waited for an answer. When I finally saw him on MSN, I simply asked him if he intended to answer me. He said no, because this email was just childish behavior.
First off, could he be any more diminutive to me, almost calling me a child?
And then..
He tells me if he's mad at me he will exlain. Then, he's mad at me and he doesn't say anything. I write him a polite email to ask him the reasons, see if I can do something to make it better, etc. He refuses to answer.. and I'm the one who's acting like a child?
Did I miss out on something?
And I'm the one who's considered very dumb and air-headed by half the planet. Riiiiight.

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